Three most important lessons I have learned in my life.

Three most important lessons I have learned in my life.

1.    Always being strong you

No matter how hard things get or what horrible thing happens to you, nobody's going to cut you any slack. If you have to grieve, you need repair your life, you're not perfect because you went through traumatic events in your childhood, it doesn't matter. You're held to the same standards as everyone else, even if things were tough for you.

On one hand this is kind of horrible. Grief and hardship shouldn't be the sort of thing you have to bare on your own. Everyone needs help. But really, you can't expect the world to wait for you to get better. Everyone else has tough times coming their way or things they've had to deal with before. You can learn on your friends and family for help, but you can't lean on the rest of the world. You have to show strength and persevere.

As someone who has gone through a lot of tough shit, I'm not going to pretend it makes you better all-around. I'm still damaged in some ways, but I'm a lot stronger than before. Some parts of life are always going to be a struggle, but when you've struggled you don't get so intimidated by a challenge.

2.    The past is the way

Making decision to let go some memory that have hurt you is hard to do. But it also means accepting you have to. Stop reliving the past pain, stop going over the story in your head every time think of it. I have to remind myself that mistakes are good thing because it means I had the opportunity to learn something instead of just playing it safe.

Dealing on past mistakes can really hold you back. It is never easy, but I need to take lesson out of the experience, file it away and keep move on. Otherwise I’ll end up being stuck in the lesson until I’ve learn it. This is the nature of the universe.

After all I’ve see that there is no actual thing called the past. Everything that happens will happen in the present to make you better person. Memories of events are thoughts occurring in the present. Anger or hurt about the past is happening now. My present moment experience now is what keeps the past alive.

3.         3. Never break trust

Trust has a very broad sense. This word contains an ocean of meaning, but underneath it all is the sense of responsibility. People can forget what they see, but they will never forget what they fell. Trust Is Like A Mirror Once Broken You Never Look At In The Same Way Again. Some people might give you a second change but some people don’t.

It is hard to build but so easy to break. I have learned that because someone just dumps me with my trust for him. We used to be closed until be become a strangers. I thought that I knew him, but I confuse after he take away all his promise. What I do to keep my heart save is keep trusting myself that I’m strong to manage any hurt feeling. To make me stand up again and move on. He just only knows to make a promise but lies that I got, and half-trust that he spoken over and done. It’s my trust that he broken.

-Deiyana-

Posted by Silentpuppets at 2:12 AM